Are Dominance and submission games in the bedroom okay? This is a question from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/are-dominance-submission-games-in-the-bedroom-ok/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the question of whether or not dominance and submission play is humiliating, if it's okay to call your husband "sir" in the bedroom, what about "daddy", and what if the wife is the dominant one?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List printable, which we're actually giving away free to our $5+ supporters this month. Interested in learning more? <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/our-sexploration-list/">Check it out here.</a> Want to get it free, check our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">supporter information page</a>.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:<ul><li><a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/my-wife-wants-me-to-tie-her-up/">My wife wants me to tie her up?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/beginner-bondage-questions/">Beginner Bondage Questions</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/honor-bondage/">Honor Bondage</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/household-hierarchy-physiology-say-lead/">Household Hierarchy - What does our phsysiology say about who should lead?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/household-leadership-according-bible-gender-lead/">According to the Bible, which gender should lead?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/what-does-household-leadership-mean-for-the-husband/">What does household leadership mean for the husband?</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/37YRNns">Finding the Father - Herb Montgomery</a></li></ul>Follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/UncoveringIntimacy/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/uncoveringintimacy/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/uncoveringlove">Twitter</a>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.We are 95% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful supporters.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

Are Dominance and submission games in the bedroom okay? This is a question from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the question of whether or not dominance and submission play is humiliating, if it's okay to call your husband "sir" in the bedroom, what about "daddy", and what if the wife is the dominant one?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List printable, which we're actually giving away free to our $5+ supporters this month. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Want to get it free, check our supporter information page.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:My wife wants me to tie her up?Beginner Bondage QuestionsHonor BondageHousehold Hierarchy - What does our phsysiology say about who should lead?According to the Bible, which gender should lead?What does household leadership mean for the husband?Finding the Father - Herb MontgomeryFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We are 95% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful supporters.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

SWM 052 – Are Dominance/Submission Games in the Bedroom OK?

October and November 2019 Questions from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-051-anonymous-questions-october-2019-types-of-orgasms,-transgendered-friends,-sleeping-during-sex-and-more/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>Other types of orgasms</li><li>How to deal with a transgendered-friend</li><li>Crossdressing for comfort</li><li>An unrepentant husband</li><li>Orgasmless sex</li><li>Wife sleeps during sex</li><li>Husband will not come to bed at a decent time</li><li>What if you medically can't have sex</li><li>How do you switch from being single and chaste to married and sexual?</li></ul>This month our most popular resource is our Spice Jar printable. Interested in learning more? <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/spice-jar-sexual-activities-game-printable/">Check it out here.</a>Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-040-what-happens-to-our-souls-when-we-have-sex/">What happens to our souls when we have sex?</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2S3DDfA">Dante's The Divine Comedy</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/how-do-i-know-my-spouse-is-my-soul-mate/">How do I know my spous is my soul-mate?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-it-wrong-for-christians-to-crossdress/">Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress?</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/38Knf9W">Keep your love on - Danny Silk</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/36KuQDJ">Boundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John Townsend</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/mutual-masturbation-for-married-christians/">Is mutual masturbation okay for married Christians?</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2Prf0I7">Intimacy Ignited</a></li></ul>Follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/UncoveringIntimacy/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/uncoveringintimacy/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/uncoveringlove">Twitter</a>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 91% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful champions.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

October and November 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Other types of orgasmsHow to deal with a transgendered-friendCrossdressing for comfortAn unrepentant husbandOrgasmless sexWife sleeps during sexHusband will not come to bed at a decent timeWhat if you medically can't have sexHow do you switch from being single and chaste to married and sexual?This month our most popular resource is our Spice Jar printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:What happens to our souls when we have sex?Dante's The Divine ComedyHow do I know my spous is my soul-mate?Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress?Keep your love on - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs mutual masturbation okay for married Christians?Intimacy IgnitedFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 91% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful champions.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

SWM 051 – Anonymous Questions – October & November 2019 – Types of orgasms, sleeping during sex & more

September 2019 Questions from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/anonymous-questions-from-september-2019-deployed-spouses-passive-sex-partners-sleep-apnea-and-how-to-boost-attraction-for-your-spouse/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>How do you deal with deployment and sex drives</li><li>How do we improve sexual intimacy</li><li>How to improve our sex life</li><li>Satisfaction and adventurousness</li><li>How do you get your wife to be more dominant in bed</li><li>Asking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t work</li><li>Husband has sleep apnea</li><li>What should teenagers do instead of masturbate?</li></ul>Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/mutual-masturbation-for-married-christians/">Mutual Masturbation for Married Christians</a></li><li><a href="https://befullywell.com/">Dr. Jessica McCleese</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2NUavFc">Intimacy Ignited - Small Group Study</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/the-worst-time-to-spice-up-your-sex-life/">The worst time to spice up your sex life</a></li><li><a href="https://thoughtcatalog.com/brittany-cox/2016/11/9-raunchy-reasons-why-letting-him-cum-up-your-nostril-will-lead-to-the-best-sex-of-your-life/">9 raunchy reasons why letting him cum up your nostril will lead to the best sex of your life</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/introduction-talking-dirty/">Introduction to Talking Dirty</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/intimacy-advent-calendar/">Intimacy Advent Calendar</a></li></ul>Follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/UncoveringIntimacy/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/uncoveringintimacy/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/uncoveringlove">Twitter</a>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 86% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful champions.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

September 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How do you deal with deployment and sex drivesHow do we improve sexual intimacyHow to improve our sex lifeSatisfaction and adventurousnessHow do you get your wife to be more dominant in bedAsking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t workHusband has sleep apneaWhat should teenagers do instead of masturbate?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Mutual Masturbation for Married ChristiansDr. Jessica McCleeseIntimacy Ignited - Small Group StudyThe worst time to spice up your sex life9 raunchy reasons why letting him cum up your nostril will lead to the best sex of your lifeIntroduction to Talking DirtyIntimacy Advent CalendarFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 86% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful champions.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse

Focus on your spouse, not the model. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-049-focus-on-your-spouse-not-the-model/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about spontaneous and responsive desire are just a model to help educator and guide. But eventually you have to drop the model and focus on how your spouse is unique.Listen to these two podcast episodes first:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-desire-is-a-blessing/">Responsive desire is a blessing</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-047-spontaneous-desire-is-a-blessing/">Spontaneous desire is a blessing</a></li></ul><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/intimacy-advent-calendar/">Check out our Intimacy Advent Calendar</a> if you're looking for a Christmas gift to help boost intimacy and keep you and your spouse focused on each other during the holidays. Visit the site to check out all the amazing reviews people shared from last year.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info. Also, supporters giving at least $5/month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free this month.Make sure you <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/subscribe">subscribe to the newsletter</a> so you don't miss out on everything that's going on. Lastly, if you have any questions, you can always email me at <a href="mailto:jay@uncoveringintimacy.com">jay@uncoveringintimacy.com</a>.

Focus on your spouse, not the model. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about spontaneous and responsive desire are just a model to help educator and guide. But eventually you have to drop the model and focus on how your spouse is unique.Listen to these two podcast episodes first:Responsive desire is a blessingSpontaneous desire is a blessingCheck out our Intimacy Advent Calendar if you're looking for a Christmas gift to help boost intimacy and keep you and your spouse focused on each other during the holidays. Visit the site to check out all the amazing reviews people shared from last year.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Also, supporters giving at least $5/month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free this month.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on. Lastly, if you have any questions, you can always email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.

SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-048-anonymous-questions-from-july-august-2019-squirting-anal-sex-tips-unreciprocated-oral-sex/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?</li><li>How to squirt</li><li>Wife is into whipping</li><li>Anal sex tips</li><li>Single and curious about erections</li><li>Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night</li><li>Husband has a secret Facebook profile</li><li>Porn addiction ruining relationships</li><li>Wife said she could go months without sex</li><li>Low drive husband with Asperger's Syndrome</li><li>Sex is just another thing on my wife's checklist</li><li>Oral sex not being reciprocated</li><li>Husband engaging with women online</li></ul>Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-vs-spontaneous-desire/">Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire</a></li><li><a href="https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/">Women's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirt</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2VdRFv1">Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud</a></li><li><a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/covenanteyes">Covenant Eyes Web Filtering</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2VhST8y">The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2AU5GVn">22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome</a></li></ul>Follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/UncoveringIntimacy/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/uncoveringintimacy/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/uncoveringlove">Twitter</a>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.We lost a few supporters over the slow summer and due to fincial setbacks from a couple of our supporters, but we're gaining traction again. We're 81% of the way to our next goal - weekly podcast episodes!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?How to squirtWife is into whippingAnal sex tipsSingle and curious about erectionsLow drive wife is secretly masturbating every nightHusband has a secret Facebook profilePorn addiction ruining relationshipsWife said she could go months without sexLow drive husband with Asperger's SyndromeSex is just another thing on my wife's checklistOral sex not being reciprocatedHusband engaging with women onlineHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Responsive vs Spontaneous DesireWomen's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirtBoundaries In Marriage - Henry CloudCovenant Eyes Web FilteringThe Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's SyndromeFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We lost a few supporters over the slow summer and due to fincial setbacks from a couple of our supporters, but we're gaining traction again. We're 81% of the way to our next goal - weekly podcast episodes!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

SWM 048 – Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 – Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex

Spontaneous desire is a blessing. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/spontaneous-desire-is-a-blessing/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about how spontaneous desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with spontaneous desire and the person who's spouse has it.Links I mentioned are:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-desire-is-a-blessing/">Responsive desire is a blessing</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/donate/">Our supporter forum</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/good-first-adult-toy/">What's a good first sex toy?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm010-all-you-want-is-sex/">All you want is sex</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/trapped-gatekeepers-blame-the-guard-not-the-prisoner/">Trapped Gatekeepers - Blame the guard, not the prisoner</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/dual-control-model-sometimes-cant-get-mood-sex/">The dual control model - Why you sometimes can't get in the mood for sex</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/your-definition-of-gross-changes-when-youre-aroused/">Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-sex-a-need-or-a-want/">Is sex a need or a want?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/marriage-life-coaching/">Marriage Coaching</a></li></ul>If you have any questions, you can email me at <a href="mailto:jay@uncoveringintimacy.com">jay@uncoveringintimacy.com</a>.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info.Make sure you <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/subscribe">subscribe to the newsletter</a> so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

Spontaneous desire is a blessing. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about how spontaneous desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with spontaneous desire and the person who's spouse has it.Links I mentioned are:Responsive desire is a blessingOur supporter forumWhat's a good first sex toy?All you want is sexTrapped Gatekeepers - Blame the guard, not the prisonerThe dual control model - Why you sometimes can't get in the mood for sexYour definition of gross changes when you're arousedIs sex a need or a want?Marriage CoachingIf you have any questions, you can email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing

Responsive desire is a blessing. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-desire-is-a-blessing/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about how responsive desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with responsive desire and the person who's spouse has it.Links I mentioned are:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/september-kegel-squat-challenge/">September Kegel / Squat Challenge</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-vs-spontaneous-desire/">Responsive vs. spontaneous desire</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/do-you-control-your-emotions-or-do-they-control-you/">Do you control your emotions or do they control you?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/spice-jar-sexual-activities-game-printable/">Spice Jar</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/sexy-memory-printable/">Sexy Memory</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/melt">Learn how to massage your spouse</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/oil">Sweet almond massage oil</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/our-sexploration-list/">Our Sexploration List</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/dual-control-model-sometimes-cant-get-mood-sex/">Sexual inhibitors</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/desire-vs-willingness/">Desire vs. willingness</a></li></ul>If you have any questions, you can email me at <a href="mailto:jay@uncoveringintimacy.com">jay@uncoveringintimacy.com</a>.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info.Make sure you <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/subscribe">subscribe to the newsletter</a> so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

Responsive desire is a blessing. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about how responsive desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with responsive desire and the person who's spouse has it.Links I mentioned are:September Kegel / Squat ChallengeResponsive vs. spontaneous desireDo you control your emotions or do they control you?Spice JarSexy MemoryLearn how to massage your spouseSweet almond massage oilOur Sexploration ListSexual inhibitorsDesire vs. willingnessIf you have any questions, you can email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

SWM 046 – Responsive desire is a blessing

July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-048-anonymous-questions-from-july-august-2019-squirting-anal-sex-tips-unreciprocated-oral-sex/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?</li><li>How to squirt</li><li>Wife is into whipping</li><li>Anal sex tips</li><li>Single and curious about erections</li><li>Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night</li><li>Husband has a secret Facebook profile</li><li>Porn addiction ruining relationships</li><li>Wife said she could go months without sex</li><li>Low drive husband with Asperger's Syndrome</li><li>Sex is just another thing on my wife's checklist</li><li>Oral sex not being reciprocated</li><li>Husband engaging with women online</li></ul>Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/responsive-vs-spontaneous-desire/">Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire</a></li><li><a href="https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/">Women's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirt</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2VdRFv1">Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud</a></li><li><a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/covenanteyes"></a>Covenant Eyes Web Filtering</li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2VhST8y">The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2AU5GVn">22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome</a></li></ul>Follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/UncoveringIntimacy/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/uncoveringintimacy/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/uncoveringlove">Twitter</a>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.We lost a few supporters over the slow summer and due to fincial setbacks from a couple of our supporters, but we're gaining traction again. We're 81% of the way to our next goal - weekly podcast episodes!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

SWM 045 – Anonymous Questions from May and June 2019

Tackling February and March 2019 questions from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-044-anonymous-questions-from-february-and-march-2019/">show notes here</a> for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>Is doggy style demeaning?</li><li>Does anal sex always cause bleeding?</li><li>How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife?</li><li>Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse?</li><li>How to handle a wife orgasming too quickly</li><li>Mutual Masturbation</li><li>Swallowing your own semen</li><li>Can you be married to the wrong person?</li><li>Is sexlessness being unfaithful?</li><li>Ethical porn</li></ul>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.Lastly, we're closing in our our next support goal! 82% of the way there! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info.And our survey post should be up this week some time. There won't be a podcast, so make sure you <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/subscribe">subscribe to the newsletter</a> so you don't miss it.

Tackling February and March 2019 questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Is doggy style demeaning?Does anal sex always cause bleeding?How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife?Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse?How to handle a wife orgasming too quicklyMutual MasturbationSwallowing your own semenCan you be married to the wrong person?Is sexlessness being unfaithful?Ethical pornIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Lastly, we're closing in our our next support goal! 82% of the way there!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And our survey post should be up this week some time. There won't be a podcast, so make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss it.

SWM 044 – Anonymous Questions from February and March 2019

Tackling the newest questions from our anonymous <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-043-anonymous-questions-from-april-2019/">show notes here</a>.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>Wife looking up ex</li><li>Wife used to be a swinger</li><li>Is bondage okay?</li><li>Our sex life is boring</li><li>Wife destroying self-esteem</li><li>Is it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday?</li><li>Wife teasing husband sexually</li><li>Why does my husband want to lick my ass?!</li><li>and more ...</li></ul>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>. Some other updates:We're closing in our our next support goal! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">support page</a> for more info.And I'm done the analysis from our latest survey. I just need to post the results, so they should be up soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call <a href="tel:18337190228">1-833-719-0228</a> and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also <a href="tel:18337190228">text me</a>.

Tackling the newest questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:Wife looking up exWife used to be a swingerIs bondage okay?Our sex life is boringWife destroying self-esteemIs it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday?Wife teasing husband sexuallyWhy does my husband want to lick my ass?!and more ...If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some other updates:We're closing in our our next support goal! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And I'm done the analysis from our latest survey. I just need to post the results, so they should be up soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

SWM 043 – Anonymous Questions from April 2019

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.Check out the video here: <a href="https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4U">https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4U</a>Get the show notes / text of the sermon here: <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/">https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/</a>

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4UGet the show notes / text of the sermon here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/

SWM042 – God will never leave you

It happened again. I was answering questions from February and March from our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm041-how-do-you-stay-interested-long-term/">blog post here</a>.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.Some of the links mentioned in the podcast:<ul><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/do-you-control-your-emotions-or-do-they-control-you/">Do you control your emotions or do they control you?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/have-youve-broken-your-wedding-vows/">Have you broken your wedding vows?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/spouse-attracted/">Attraction Survey</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2Ikq0ox">Conversation Starters Book</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/37-questions-for-spouses-to-ask-each-other-about-sex/">37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sex</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/masturbation-problem-whether-youre-married-single/">Why solo masturbation is a problem if you're single</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/scheduled-sex-helpful-marriage/">Scheduling sex</a></li></ul>Want more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 79% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">Support Us</a> for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/subscribe">join our mailing list</a>.

It happened again. I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode. Check out the blog post here.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Some of the links mentioned in the podcast:Do you control your emotions or do they control you?Have you broken your wedding vows?Attraction SurveyConversation Starters Book37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sexWhy solo masturbation is a problem if you're singleScheduling sexWant more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 79% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to join our mailing list.

SWM041 – How do you stay interested long term?

I was answering questions from February and March from our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode because the question showed a common misunderstanding about what a soul is. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-040-what-happens-to-our-souls-when-we-have-sex/">show notes here</a>.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.Some other updates:We've added some new functionality to our supporter's forum. You can now email in topics to discuss, and can just reply to the notification emails to reply to threads. Our users are loving it and interactions are increasing, which is awesome.Want more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 77% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">Support Us</a> for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/subscribe">join our mailing list</a>.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call <a href="tel:18337190228">1-833-719-0228</a> and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also <a href="tel:18337190228">text me</a>.

I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode because the question showed a common misunderstanding about what a soul is. Check out the show notes here.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Some other updates:We've added some new functionality to our supporter's forum. You can now email in topics to discuss, and can just reply to the notification emails to reply to threads. Our users are loving it and interactions are increasing, which is awesome.Want more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 77% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to join our mailing list.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

SWM 040 – What happens to our souls when we have sex?

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions from our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-039-anonymous-questions-from-january-2019-part-3/">show notes here</a>.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>Sex drive and pregnancy</li><li>Can medications cause permanent sexual issues?</li><li>Low-drive husband's affair</li><li>Birth control options</li><li>Resources</li><li>Fisting</li><li>The banana question</li><li>Sex machines</li><li>Sex and being overweight</li><li>Sex in heaven</li><li>Tantric sex</li></ul>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>. Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">Support Us</a> for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,100 responses. I've started on the analysis and hope to have it out soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call <a href="tel:18337190228">1-833-719-0228</a> and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also <a href="tel:18337190228">text me</a>.

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions from our Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:Sex drive and pregnancyCan medications cause permanent sexual issues?Low-drive husband's affairBirth control optionsResourcesFistingThe banana questionSex machinesSex and being overweightSex in heavenTantric sexIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,100 responses. I've started on the analysis and hope to have it out soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

SWM 039 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 3

Back for part two of our anonymous reader's questions from January 2019 from our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/have-a-question">Have A Question</a> page. Check out the <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-038-anonymous-questions-january-2019-part-2/">show notes here</a>.In this second part, we're tackling the subjects:<ul><li>Is hetero anal sex new?</li><li>Anal sex re-hash</li><li>Too large for anal?</li><li>Prostate massage</li><li>Felching</li><li>Factors in orgasm ability</li><li>Can women learn to ejaculate?</li><li>Can kegels lead to vaginal orgasms?</li><li>Can men be multiorgasmic?</li><li>How to learn to orgasm on command</li><li>Are my PC Muscles too strong?</li></ul>If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/champion">consider joining our private forum</a>.Links to things we discussed:<ul><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2T3IfUf">The Key to Feminine Response in Marriage (book)</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2VjKwIp">The Act of Marriage (book)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/on-the-topic-of-edging/">Edging (post)</a></li><li><a href="https://marrieddance.com/shop/vibrators/clitoris-suckers/womanizer-deluxe-pro-w500-focused-clitoral-stimulator/?aff=5">The Womanizer (toy)</a></li></ul>Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our <a href="https://uncoveringintimacy.com/donate">Support Us</a> for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,000 responses, so I'll be doing the analysis as soon as I can. If you want to get your responses in before I do, <a href="https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/size-and-its-impact-on-sex-survey/">fill it out here</a>.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call <a href="tel:18337190228">1-833-719-0228</a> and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also <a href="tel:18337190228">text me</a>.

Back for part two of our anonymous reader's questions from January 2019 from our Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this second part, we're tackling the subjects:Is hetero anal sex new?Anal sex re-hashToo large for anal?Prostate massageFelchingFactors in orgasm abilityCan women learn to ejaculate?Can kegels lead to vaginal orgasms?Can men be multiorgasmic?How to learn to orgasm on commandAre my PC Muscles too strong?If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Links to things we discussed:The Key to Feminine Response in Marriage (book)The Act of Marriage (book)Edging (post)The Womanizer (toy)Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,000 responses, so I'll be doing the analysis as soon as I can. If you want to get your responses in before I do, fill it out here.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

SWM 038 – Anonymous Questions January 2019 – Part 2

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